Tempt the Cougar

Just wanted to share with my friends here...

2012-01-16T13:44:00.000-08:00

Mike and I are happily expecting...

And I couldn't be more thrilled! Finding a younger man who wants kids? I can't believe it is really happening! And it's all thanks to all of you. If not for my wonderful online friends here at Tempt the Cougar, I would never have taken the leap into my beautiful man's arms. Howard never wanted kids. I did. I was shocked when Mike told me he wanted them as much as I do, and I was worried that I was too old to have them.

I am thrilled to announce that our baby will be born in a little less than two months...and my dear friend Fran Lee will be his godmother. (Yep...the ultrasounds say he is a bouncing baby boy!) I would have preferred a daughter, but Mike is so excited about a boy he can barely walk straight. I just hope the kid doesn't get spoiled rotten in the first year of life.

Mike already has a colt picked out for him, has bought a kid's saddle, and is planning which college the poor kid is going to. Sigh. And here I was hoping that I could buy our daughter her first prom dress and high heels when the time came. Guess we'll have to try again. LOL. Maybe I'll get my girl!

Love to all of you!

Lee Running Elk (Blackhorse)

An afterthought

2010-12-29T07:34:00.001-08:00

Hey girls, you really think I should try the younger man thing? On most of these sites, I can specify their ages, but I don’t want to appear like a rampaging cougar.

Lacey's First Post

2010-12-29T07:30:00.000-08:00

Hey girls, remember me? Lacey Rezanov Simmons, single and still unattached. Well today that nearly changed. I’ve had a consultant, Verill Harper, working on management organization in my company, and he did his presentation today. After he signed off the project he presented a bit more to me, in my office. We’d have done it there, on my office desk, if my son hadn’t walked in. Yeah, he’s twenty-five, but he’s still my boy. I changed his diaper, you know? And Verill is ten years younger than I am, ten years older than my son, Vance.

Vance totally doesn’t understand and I’m pretty sure when Verill left, he didn’t mean to come back. So, okay, I let one get away. I’m not pining for him, honest, but it made me realize that I really need to do something. I’m taking the challenge, but I want to start easy. Any ideas? Do these dating services really work? I don’t want to get involved with anybody I work with, but that’s the only kind of man I see these days.

I'm Lovin' It!

2010-11-26T17:36:00.000-08:00

I don't know how I can thank you all enough. Having Con at my side (and in my bed *grin*) has given a new joy to my life, and I'd have never had that gleam in my eye on meeting him if you haven't invited me to join your Tempt the Cougar Blog.

As a special thank-you, I'm posting a photo of another guy who makes underwear look good. (The pix I took of Con are mine alone. Sorry, ladies!)

ADDING HEAT is released today!

2010-11-24T06:18:00.000-08:00

I'm so excited to say that Cris Anson has written Con's and my story and I'm blushing to remember how we got together. The cover gives you a little glimpse of how how we are *big grin*. ADDING HEAT is awesome!

Encouraged by friends she met at RomantiCon, widowed landscape contractor Giselle Sheridan decides she’s finally ready to take the cougar challenge and explore sex with a younger man. Except she’s too busy during planting season to go on the prowl.

CPA Conlan Trowbridge is battling the IRS deadline for his clients, but when Giselle saunters into his office with a tax question, all he can think of is sex. She’s all luscious curves and smoldering brown eyes, and he doesn’t care if she’s a dozen years older, she’s a wet dream come true.

Oh yeah, they’re both ready for some hot and heavy sex—in the tub, parking lots, their offices—anywhere and everywhere. But Giselle is afraid her age will eventually bother Con, and her longtime foreman also has designs on her, in more ways than one. When Giselle faces some hard decisions, will she ultimately be able to keep the heat?

I did it! I did it!

2010-11-23T08:12:00.000-08:00

I'm a cougar! At last! And all I can say is, WOW, did he rock my world! Several times. And did he look adorable with his face covered with, well, juices. But gawd, I only met him on Thursday. How can he not think I’m a slut? I need my morning coffee. Plus I’ve got to focus on work until I get my crews out on the job, but will check in later, ‘cuz I definitely need your further directions and support.

And hey, this photo kinda shows you how Conlan is built, but with shorter hair. And yeah, he wears boxer-briefs and he really fills them out. Hoo-yah! (Yep, this photo came from Nicole's stash as well.)

Thanks For Inviting Me To Be A Cougar

2010-11-22T08:06:00.000-08:00

Hi, all you cougars!

Sure, I’d like to challenge myself to be a cougar. But damn, I’m torn. I have a dozen young men on payroll. It would feel like raiding a high-school basketball game when my boys were playing. I try to stay away from the jobs because I don’t want my foreman to think I’m second-guessing him, but I do so love to watch them wrestling balled and burlaped trees into holes they’ve been digging. Especially in mid-summer, when they take off their T-shirts because they’re so hot and sweaty, watching those muscles bunch and strain, well, it’s enough to make me want to go for it.

I can just see the next ad I place in the paper: “Landscaper with twenty years’ experience looking for hard-bodied men not afraid to sweat or expend energy. Must be between 25 and 35.”
But suppose I do find someone way younger? What would my employees think? That I’m robbing the cradle? That I’m fair game? Eeek! They’ll send the State Police after me.

Giselle

P.S. Thanks to Rissa, I found this photo of the type of hunk I’d like to meet. She told me about Nicole Austin’s inspirational pix. Whew!

HAT TRICK, how I landed two younger men as my lovers

2010-10-20T00:01:00.000-07:00

My dear Cougar friends, I have so much to thank you for and I hardly know where to begin.

But let me tell you where I begin from!

Paris!

With my two lovers whom I might never had have had the courage to claim if it weren’t for you, I look out across the Seine to Sacre Coeur and smile in gratitude.

I do also wonder when we will have another new recruit?

Soon, I hope!

Come read my story, HAT TRICK, at www.jasminejade.com/ps-8700-50-hat-trick.aspx

No longer Crazy in Texas, but Loving Life, Everywhere!

Cougar Couples Who Should Be! Post your couple...

2010-10-14T08:04:00.000-07:00

COUGAR GROWL at ROMANTICON was a fun-filled blast!

To give you a flavor, here now is The List created by the audience of those older women-younger men couples who should be together.

Choose your fave, BUT SEND US your own duos.

Here we go:

Betty White and Justin Timberlake
Faye Dunaway and Ashton Kutcher
Hillary Clinton and Rob Pattison
Rosemary Clooney and Michael Buble
Sophia Loren and Maxim Sharkovsky (sp.?)
Racquel Welch and Vin Diesel
Michelle Pheiffer and Taylor Lautner
Audrey Hepburn and Harry Potter
Vera Allen and Derek Huff
Julia Roberts and Chris Pike

The winner by applause?

Racquel Welch and Vin Diesel

Send us your own submissions.

Why?

Readers and Writers never get enough...of anything!

Then stayed tuned for 3 more Cougar Challenge stories coming soon, beginning with my HAT TRICK October 20.

One man or two, if he's younger I've got a wee problem, don't I?

2010-10-11T00:01:00.000-07:00

This hot affair of mine with Trey and Gage is nothing like I have ever known, it is so thrilling.

But this afternoon, an acquaintance in town (whom I KNOW is just pea green with envy) saw me with both men and called me "a lucky old thing."

Suddenly, I'm not as concerned about the folks I've known for years, as I am the reaction of my only child, my son who soon comes home for the weekend.

Rissa, you have children. Tell me what you said to them. How you broke the news that you loved a younger man. I am in such a mess here, upset at myself, shocked and heart-broken, too, that I might just be a coward after all!

Autumn, you live near a small town. How do you deal with what others’ think of your relationship with a man who is younger than you are?

Lori, why do I have this feeling that I need to be just like everyone else?

Just only one good man, but two???

2010-10-04T00:01:00.000-07:00

Be careful what you wish for, right? No sooner did I say I wanted to find a man and accept the Challenge and I've got TWO men walking in my door. Turns out they are friends of my best friend's fiance and here to stand up for him at the wedding.

But my problem now is not finding a younger man I could be attracted to, but choosing only ONE! Both men are absolutely to-die-for scrumptious and heaven knows if either one is even available, let alone open to a short romp with an older lady. Both of them are now upstairs sleeping. (I did tell you that I run a Bed and Breakfast here in town, didn’t I? I use it whenoften, especially with folks who are coming into town for the weddings I plan need a place to hang their hatsing in and out of town for the weddings I plan.)

But ALL suggestions for what to do are so welcome!

One Man of My Own? Please!

2010-09-27T00:01:00.000-07:00

Dear Cougars, HELP! I've told you how I live in a small ranching town of two thousand--and trust me, I have looked for a man to warm my bed. Old or young, no man lives within shouting distance who thrills me! A young man in my bed sounds like a swell idea. Someone who has the stamina and the energy to give me one heart-pounding night of non-stop love.

But how can I take the Cougar Challenge if I can't find one?

I'm a widow. For five years running. And lonely.

I had a marvelous marriage and I miss my husband. But life goes on...and I feel it's going on without me.

I've read these books. I LOVE this COUGAR CHALLENGE. The women are gutsy, taking their lives into their own hands.

But a younger man?

Come on.

Really?

What can a younger man know what an experienced woman wants?

I like men. I love men. But damn, if I can find one in my one-horse town who appeals to me. Young. Old. Somewhere in between. Nada here in southwest Texas, honey.

And like the song goes, I'm not talking about forever, baby. That would be too demanding. I'm just talking about hooking up and hanging out. I'm just talking about tonight. And heart-pounding, inventive, scrumptious sex.

Are you a lady of a certain age with similar aspirations?

If so, tell me what I do, where I go to find a man with great moves and a love of women who adore sex. Hmm?

Crazy in Texas

Summer of the Cougar

2010-07-30T10:00:00.000-07:00

Now available from Ellora's Cave Publishing

With the big four-oh looming, Larissa Cross is more than ready to shed the roles that have defined her and make drastic changes. Gone are the widowed Army wife, soccer mom and empty nester. She's even setting aside the schoolteacher until fall.

A naughty challenge issued by fellow erotic romance booklovers on their blog, Tempt the Cougar, has come at the perfect time and ignited Rissa's competitive drive. It's going to be a glorious summer full of hot younger man lovin' for a new cougar on the prowl. Rawr!

Tattooed and pierced fireman JD Harmon is tempting prey but there's much more to the hunk than his bad boy good looks. A one-night stand isn't in his plans, and sex--no matter how mind-blowing--won't distract him from his goals. JD intends to tame the wicked cougar and stake a claim on her heart.

Help!

2010-07-29T08:10:00.000-07:00

Help! I need serious cougar reinforcement and advice.

After my husband died I didn't date and the few affairs I had were conducted away from my kids. Well, my daughter called this morning while JD and I were making breakfast and he answered the phone.

To say Mariah freaked out would be putting it lightly. The darn kid is too smart for her own good. She could tell from his voice that he's younger than me and she connected the dots with relative ease. You have no idea how embarrassing it is to be confronted by your child about your sex life. She threatened to come home or send her brother home to "kick some ass."

I took the cordless phone into the bedroom, JD followed and proceeded to...um, distract me. Mariah knew something was going on. I told her that I'm single and in my prime, and that her father would have wanted me to enjoy life. JD wanted me to tell her about him and proceeded to do wicked things to me with his tongue. I had to end the call before I was moaning into the phone.

It's my own fault for putting this part of my life on hold and never letting the kids see me around men other than family. They just aren't prepared for the reality of mom being human and having sex. Oh Lord, what a mess! The last thing I need is my kids racing home to confront my much younger lover. Yikes! What the heck do I do now? How do I handle this?

Rissa

Do I Kill Rachel Bridges or Hug Her?

2010-07-28T16:26:00.000-07:00

Hello. My name is Darci and I’m a cougar. Well, a cougar wannabe. Actually, that’s not right either. Let me start again.

G’day. I’m Darci, I’m Australian and my friend Rachel Bridges just laid down a challenge I can’t possibly refuse. Before I even knew I had a thing for younger men, Rach did (she’s quite intelligent, isn’t she?).

After only a few telephone conversations, Rachel realized what I needed and sent me the best kick up the butt I could ask for (although I’m still in shock that she did *grin*)—an invitation to join this blog and the amazing women on it.

Why the hell can’t a woman in her forties have the best sex of her life with a man in his twenties? Who decided we have to settle for the saggy-bottomed, remote-hogging men of our own age? Why the hell do I feel guilty when I flirt with a younger man?

Enough, I say! I want what society has long said I can’t have, dammit!

Rachel, I accept your challenge. This Cougar Down Under is ready to be tempted.

Darci-Rae

(BTW—I hope you like the pictures of some very delicious Aussie “cubs” I’ve included.)

(BTW, again. Is it PC to use the term “cub” or am I just bowing to the media’s latest manipulation of the English language?)

(BTW, one last time. I babble. A lot. Sorry.)

On The Prowl!

2010-07-27T08:20:00.000-07:00

Today is the first official day of summer break and the start of my new life. No more rambunctious fifth graders, classrooms or papers to grade. Robby is off to college for a special summer program and I'm living alone for the first time in my life. Talk about scary!

Sold the house, bought and decorated my new condo, packed up my "teacher" clothes and shopped for a sexy new wardrobe, traded in the minivan for a cherry red convertible and got tattooed. I now have a colorful butterfly on my right hip--just above my bikini line--to symbolize my metamorphosis from Army widow and soccer mom to cougar on the prowl. Rawr!

There is just one thing left on my list--the cougar challenge. Hopefully this will be a summer full of hot lovin' with younger men! I've got eight glorious weeks to play, although I'm not sure how to get started or where to find and stalk my prey. Maybe I'll head to the beach, sip a couple of margaritas and check out the scenery.

Wish me luck ladies!

Rissa

Need a hug!

2010-05-31T07:49:00.000-07:00

Hey, Cougars. I’m sniffling over my keyboard. Mark left today. I gave him one hell of a send-off! I’m going to worry about him. I’m going to worry about us, too, and maybe he isn’t the “one”. If it doesn’t work, though, I’m not going to blame it on age. I’m over that bull. We need to spread the word. Cougars of the world, take the challenge! You won’t regret it.

Grace

All's well that ends well...

2010-05-26T16:34:00.000-07:00

Hello, ladies! I have some great news. Sebastian won his fourth world championship! Yes, that’s right, we’re off to celebrate with a three-month trip to Asia. Bali, here we come. I’m not sure how great the internet connection will be at the beach but don’t worry, Bastian will be taking good care of me.

I think this will be a great chance for us to see how things would work out if I decide to accept his proposal. I miss him so much when we’re apart. I’m starting to forget why I thought it was a good idea in the first place.

So, anyone feel like visiting me in Europe next year? I think I’m going to need someone to hold my hand during the circuit events. Watching them live is scarier than on TV.

Besides… I know another hot young guy who could use a sexy Cougar.
Okay, Bastian’s giving me that look. Yeah, you know the one. Gotta run, I’ll write when I can!

Help!

2010-05-24T16:30:00.000-07:00

OMG! Still stuck in the airport, no hope for making dinner. Hottest guy ever rescued me from splattering on the runway. Now sitting next to me since he’s heading to JFK too. You all are a bad influence! I can’t stop thinking about what he’d be like in bed. Blue, blue eyes. Body to die for. Sexy accent. Killer smile. God, he even smells good. I think I might have had a mini orgasm just looking at him. Too bad he’s probably not even thirty yet.

Happy Monday Morning!

2010-05-24T05:55:00.001-07:00

Happy Monday morning, Ladies! I have three words for you. Hot. Heavy. Sex. Thank you all for your support. Any time I started to doubt myself, I thought of your encouraging words. I've got a week of fun to look forward to. I'll keep you posted.

Grace

Driven - Now Available

2010-05-23T16:36:00.000-07:00

Buy now from Ellora's Cave

ISBN: 9781419927720

Book eight in the Cougar Challenge series. These books do not have to be read in order to be enjoyed.

Lynn Madison transformed from repressed corporate drone to bold seductress overnight when her online friends at Tempt the Cougar encouraged her to take charge of her destiny. Their advice haunts her as she drools over the hottest Italian Stallion on the planet while stranded in an airport.

Sebastian Fiori is a master of speed. A rally car driver, he’s used to winning on and off the track. He sees no need to brake around the sophisticate who revs his engine. After spotting Lynn’s decadent ménage novel, he prepares to take her for the ride of a lifetime—with his navigator, Mark.

Storm delays threatening Lynn’s brand new life would be far more upsetting if her young stud wasn’t offering a first-class ticket to indulge her fantasy on the way to fulfilling her dream. Neither of them expects their rendezvous to last beyond their transatlantic flight on his private jet. But sometimes there’s no escaping the forces of nature.

Grace has finally done it!

2010-05-19T03:15:00.001-07:00

Dr. Grace McKinnon has finally taken the Cougar Challenge! Follow her tempting story of sex and romance with a hot, young army captain in Locked and Loaded.

I'm so proud of her. She's spent her whole life devoted to family and country. Now it is time for her to have some fun and what better way to have fun than in the arms of a sexy guy who sees her and not her age?!

I know things will work out for Grace and her captain. She has all of the wonderful cougar women who came before her to thank, especially her good friend, Elizabeth Winters. You can bet Grace will pay it forward.

Locked and Loaded is available today, May 19, through Ellora's Cave. Here's a blurb to wet your appetite.

Former army-turned-ER doctor Grace McKinnon is through with going to bed with nothing more than fantasies and a yearning to resurrect her personal life. She’s determined instead to take the Cougar Challenge with a flesh and hot-blooded younger man. She discovers the perfect opportunity steaming up the curtain of exam room four.

Captain Mark Bennington has been locked and loaded—ready for action—since meeting Grace. He’s on a mission to heat up the Boston nights while on leave. This sexy older woman is lighting his way, fulfilling double-time every sex wish he’s ever made. But it’s going to be the toughest fight of his life to convince her to take a chance on more than just a fling.

I've waited long enough!

2010-05-18T15:27:00.000-07:00

Hi Ladies! This is my first time blogging. I’m a friend of Elizabeth Winters. She’s been trying to get me to take the Cougar Challenge for a while now, and guess what? I’m doing it. I have an honest-to-God date with a younger man, and a soldier no less. I was going to turn him down and yet I found myself saying yes. How often do you get a chance to fulfill a fantasy? I can be sensible some other time. Wish me luck.

Dr. Grace McKinnon

Lordy, ladies! Lee Blackhorse took the challenge!

2010-05-14T01:35:00.000-07:00

You remember the gal who left a terrified, timid comment on one of Cam's old blog posts? Well, after a bit of encouragement, she jumped in with both feet, and OMG! You should see her gorgeous feller! (I have a pic, but 'll have to post it when I can get it out of Cam's clutches!)

She told me about the way all of you helped her to climb out of the rut she'd dug herself into. You are all so wonderful!

At forty-two, she genuinely thought she was on the shelf. When she posted to her own blog site that she was shocked and embarrassed to realize that she was having a big problem (her thirty-year-old weekend helper was looking damn good!) I told her she should ask you gals for help.

I am sooo happy she decided to do just that.

Lee's story is so fabulous, I just had to share it with you all.

Nothing but Sex releases today from Ellora's Cave, and I invite you all to read about her journey from nervous pussycat to full fledged Cougar. I felt so touched by her innocence despite her age and experience with a bad marriage. It's hard to maintain your ethics and your courage when life keeps coming back to smack you upside the head. She was lucky to have found your Tempt the Cougar blog last year, and she even found the courage to build one of her own, although she was too timid to post often, in case somebody saw it. LOL!

This is one amazing lady...following in the footsteps of nine other amazing ladies. I salute you all.

Here is a blurb from the book.

Lee Blackhorse is hardly Cougar material, no matter what her friends over at Tempt the Cougar say. A forty-two-year-old woman who lusts after her thirty-year-old weekend helper is just plain nuts. Or is she? Mike Running Elk is the sexiest thing ever to don tight jeans and a second-skin t-shirt. She’s secretly yearned for the man for years.

Mike has no problem seeing himself in the role of Lee’s lover. In fact, if he can just get the hot-as-hell woman to realize he’s plenty old enough to ring her bells, he plans to do more than just clean her barn and mow her grass. He’s waited for her long enough.

When Mike shows up at her door with an injured hand, he notices Lee can’t pull her eyes off his naked, ripped chest. Mike can’t believe she’s as oblivious as she acts. The ice has been broken and he intends to heat things up even more…

Reader Advisory: Our poor heroine endures some mild violence in a particular scene, but don’t worry—the hero’s got her back.

Fran Lee

http://www.franleeromance.com

Read Lori's Story today in DRILLED

2010-04-14T07:19:00.001-07:00

I've been following Lori Donovan's progress in her
'cougarfication' and it was so damn fascinating, I decided to write a book about it. Drilled is available today at Ellora's Cave and ties in with other great stories in the Cougar Challenge series. So pick up your copy today and see just what kind of guts it takes to go for it and live life LARGE.

Remember when you were in high school and there were plenty of young guys your age but you just couldn’t take your eyes off the good looking, athletic senior? He was mature (yeah right…big eye roll). He was smooth and, in our young eyes, sophisticated and waaaay cool. We couldn’t resist the appeal of this guy who seemed to have his act together. We even wrote Mr. and Mrs. Super Cool Guy all over our notebooks and made sure to include little hearts all around it. Ahhh, the good old days.

As we matured into young women we still hankered after the man who had his act together. He was smart, well-educated, and often made a very good living. No, there’s not a thing wrong with that. The older man is sophisticated, fun to talk to, and sexually experienced. You know, interesting. There is major appeal to be found with someone to whom you can really talk, who doesn’t get into weird and confusing head games, who doesn’t judge you etc.

Now who is to say that young guys don’t have the same thoughts and feelings about this? Do you think the high school underclassman didn’t secretly lust after the senior head cheerleader? Of course he did. It’s natural to find self confidence and experience attractive. Perhaps that’s the reason Cougar stories have become so popular. Some of the most beautiful, exciting and interesting women in the world are over forty. They are living life large, confident in what they want and, ahem, in WHOM they want. Many mature women who aren’t anxious for entanglements have been there and done that with ‘relationships’. They instead want the freedom to have some fun. Not a thing wrong with it. Let’s be realistic here, mature men have been doing it for years.

And why wouldn’t a young man not find a more mature woman completely refreshing? He doesn’t have to worry about head games, biological clocks, hints of setting up housekeeping and future babies. He isn’t ready for that yet and often finds a mature, attractive woman just the kind of romantic partner that appeals. And of course there’s that whole ‘sexual peak’ thing.
I’m not advocating being a cougar. Not at all. It’s certainly not something that appeals to everyone. Just saying, to each his own and why can’t a mature, totally grown up woman look where she wants for fun and sexual fulfillment? It’s a brave new world out there. Embrace your maturity, your wit and wisdom, and reach for what you want.

Buy DRILLED here!

Blurb:

A standalone story in the Cougar Challenge series.

Lori Donovan accepts the Cougar Challenge and pledges to snag a hot young stud, knowing it’ll be tough once she moves back to her Texas hometown. She expects barren plains and rattlesnakes but finds hunky Jackson Blue drilling for oil on her property instead. A driller. Hmm. Lori has a few ideas about that and just about all of them involve her poor, needy, sex-starved body.

Jackson takes one look at the curvy, sexy, older woman and puts his expertise into action. After all, drilling is what he does best. Against the wall, on the floor or in the middle of her bed, he’s the right man for the job. It’s a hot time in Texas when a tough, sexy drillin’ man meets a sassy cougar, and playing it safe just isn’t an option.

Gettin' My Growl On

2010-04-12T07:18:00.000-07:00

Okay ya'll, I've been lurking but I figure it's about time I got my growl on as a bonafide cougar so yeah, here I am. No more stalling for Ms. Lori Donovan. After the margarita induced haze at RomantiCon and those little promises I made about finding my inner cougar, I'm ready to finally live up to the challenge. Getting geared up to move from Dallas to my little bitty hometown. I'm not expecting much in the way of available hot, young, gods but you can at least get an eensy peek at what I would loooove to find!

Am I nervous???? Hell yes, I am. Hold me up, ladies, give me a push. I'm praying really hard I don't make a damn fool out of myself here but you guys got your growl on so I figure I can too! What do you think?

I'll keep you posted. Whew!

Just Say No...

2010-04-09T17:24:00.001-07:00

to tighty whities! Come on guys, there are so many other more interesting options to choose from. Boxers, briefs, snug boxer-briefs. And my personal favorite--commando. Yum!

Whatcha-ma-call-it

2010-03-05T04:35:00.000-08:00

I don't know if there's a name for it or what its called but I am in complete and total lust with that sexy deeply indented V that angles down and inward from a man's hips toward his pelvis. You know what I'm talking about? That delicious groove that makes a woman wanna trace it with her tongue. No, well I have pictures--a perfect six-pack. I'll show, you tell me if there's a name for it other than yummilicious. *BWEG*

Anyone Have Some Matches?

2010-01-26T19:02:00.000-08:00

Maybe if I start a fire one of these hot young studs will come to the rescue and liven up my day.

Oh what a difference a year makes

2010-01-02T05:53:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year!

2009 was certainly a year of change for many of us. We let go of old hang-ups and insecurities and ventured out behind the safe walls we'd built to find that we are indeed still women with some fire in our furnace!

We made new friends, had lots of laughs and are now excited about what the new year has to bring.

Like some sexual excitement for the new gals among us:) Come on, ladies, get yourself out there and make 2010 not the Year of the Tiger, but the Year of the Cougar!

And just in case you need a visual, here's a small sampling of the fun we've had the past year. Revisting pleasures we'd forgotten we enjoyed so much, and trying some new things that popped our corks.

You know what they say ... you don't know if you like it unless you try it:)

Happy New Year hugs to all!!

Cam

Position of the week—The Pair of Tongs

2009-12-26T13:38:00.000-08:00

I looked at the picture of this one and just laughed. Talk about superhuman strength. Who makes this stuff up? In this position, the woman hangs off the bed sideways, supporting most of her weight on one arm. The man straddles the woman’s lower leg while holding her upper leg…well, up. Might have to lift weights for a few months (or years) to be able to achieve this one.

Well, you gals threw out the challenge and all I can say is we tried our best to do The Pair of Tongs position. Sweet Mary. I’m not sure who worked that position out, but God bless their upper-arm strength. Ethan tried to help me get in the right position and we even—sort of—held the pose for a few seconds before I started giggling uncontrollably. At that point, it went downhill fast. My arm gave out, Ethan tripped while trying to break my fall and we both fell onto the floor in a heap of naked body parts. I have to admit it will go down as my favorite pose regardless of the fact we never did it, because as we were sitting on the floor laughing our asses off—Ethan told me he loved me. He loves me!

Cam is having a Holiday

2009-12-22T13:38:00.000-08:00

Not just any Holiday, mind you. I'm celebrating the release of the book Ciana wrote about me. Yes, this story is about me!! I can't believe it's real. Ciana sent me a copy and I have to say that reading my own tale was ... well, it was exciting.

I hope you'll enjoy reading about what happened the fantasies I had about being with a younger man become more than daydreams.

When Lee Holiday showed up in my life, I wasn't looking for anything but a night of steamy hot sex. And boy did he seem like just the man to fill the bill.

And yippee!! Lee made it clear that he wanted to ring my bell. (And yes, he definitely did. Repeatedly.) Can you say sexual nirvana.

Only Lee isn't interested in just great sex. He wants the hole nine yards. Eeek! I didn't plan on that. But then I never planned on feeling the way Lee makes me feel.
So, what will happen? Well, I can't tell you that. You'll just have to read the book. But hey, take a look at this cover. Can you say you're not just a little tempted to do a little fantasizing of your own about this oh-so-fine fellow?

Hope you'll enjoy finding out what happens! Just in case, click here to get a copy from Ellora's Cave

Oh, and below is a little blurb from the book.

Cheers,
Cam

Chapter One

Tempt the Cougar Blog

From Cam: Sometimes I really hate you, Monica. Well, not you. But that damn challenge you issued. Okay, so not even that. I hate that I’m a freaking coward who can’t screw up her courage, get out there, and try to meet someone. What the heck’s up with me? There was a time when I had gonads.

Sigh.

I did join a gym today. Okay, not exactly a walk on the wild side, but hey, there’s bound to be men, right? And I signed up for a personal trainer. At least that way I won’t be floundering around all alone while I’m scoping out the clientele.

And I swear, if I see a likely candidate for an adventure I’ll rope him and drag him home with me.

But for now, I’m waiting on my first session with the trainer. I hope I’m able to move tomorrow!

Hugs, Cam.

Camille finished her blog entry and tapped on the Publish Post button. Her friends probably felt sorry for her. All six of them had found men—young men who made them feel sexy and vital again. She wondered if she was going to be the “odd man out”, the one who couldn’t find a guy.

At the moment, she wasn’t sure why she’d joined this gym or signed up for a personal trainer. Maybe it had something to do with her ex-husband cheating on her with a woman half her age who had no jiggly bits except her exceedingly large breast implants. Maybe it was because she was feeling insecure about her body. Or maybe it was because all of her friends had guys and she had no one, and didn’t have a clue how to go about meeting men. At least not young, sexy men.

Cam’s self-confidence had pretty much been in the toilet since that day she found her husband Dan in bed with a younger woman. If the blow of him cheating on her was not enough, the gut-punch she felt when he moved out of their home the next day and into an uptown penthouse with the bimbo left her flattened.

Had it not been for the women she met at RomantiCon, a convention for erotic romance readers, she would have closed the blinds, locked the doors and wallowed in her misery.

“Camille?”

The deep male voice had her glancing up from her iPhone. Holy mother of God! “Yes?”

“Lee Holiday. Your trainer. I hope I haven’t kept you waiting long.”

Wow. Double wow. She’d expected muscles. Maybe even lots of muscles. What she hadn’t expected was a freaking god. Silky, dark hair that nearly brushed his shoulders, eyes that rivaled the blue of the Carolina sky and a body that had her eyes threatening to bug out of her head.

Cam shoved her phone into her gym bag. “No, not at all. I was a bit early.”

“Mind if I sit?”

“Please.”

He took a seat beside her. “Before I can create a regimen for you, we’re going to need to go through a short assessment to determine your current level of fitness. And I’ll need to know what fitness goals you have. But I’d like to take a bit of time today to let you ask questions and decide if I’m the right trainer for you. Do you have any questions?”

“Not really. I wasn’t expecting—”

Fuck! Coming at her was none other than the poster-girl for breast implants who had broken up her marriage. Kandy.

She’d run into Kandy a couple of times since the divorce, both times at fundraisers. And both times Kandy had made a point of commenting on how Cam was always alone. She’d even had the nerve to ask Cam if she’d like to be set up with someone so she didn’t always have to attend social events alone.

Cam had imagined multiple and diverse ways she’d like to terminate the woman. But right now, Kandy was headed toward her and Cam was not about to go through a repeat performance of “poor Cam, always alone”.

“Sorry about this,” she blurted right before she leaned forward, clamped her hands on either side of Lee Holiday’s face, and planted her lips securely on his.

“Camille?” Kandy squealed.

Cam started to break away from the completely inappropriate kiss, but Lee Holiday wrapped one muscular arm around her and pulled her right off her chair and onto his lap, slanting his mouth over hers and turning her knees to jelly as his tongue plundered her mouth.

“Camille?” Kandy’s voice filtered in through the haze of lust that had Camille unable to form a coherent thought. Good god, could the man kiss!

Lee released her and gave her a sexy smirk when she swayed slightly.

“Oh my god!” Kandy wiggled up beside her. “I can’t believe it’s you! I mean I didn’t think you worked out. Oh my god, Danny will not believe it when I tell him!”

Danny? Oh ugh. “Kandy.” It took every ounce of control Cam possessed to utter the woman’s name without adding expletives before and after.

“Hi,” Kandy cooed at Lee Holiday. “I’m Kandy. With a K.”

“Lee Holiday.”

“So, you’re—friends with Cam?”

“Actually, Lee is my lover.” Cam almost looked around to see who the hell had spoken. Had those words actually come from her lips?

“You have got to be kidding!” Kandy screeched loud enough to draw the curious glance of others at nearby tables. Oblivious to everything and everyone save herself, she ran her eyes over Lee appreciatively. “You and…and Cam?” She giggled as she looked at Cam. “Aren’t you a little…mature for him, Cammie?”

“Actually, I think she’s just perfect,” Lee answered.

“Oh, Danny is so not going to believe this!” Kandy’s eyes narrowed fractionally then she smiled. “Cammie, you are bringing Lee to the fundraiser next weekend, aren’t you?”

Cam felt like the proverbial deer caught in the headlights of an oncoming semi.

“Of course I’m escorting her.” Lee once again saved her from coming up with a convenient lie.

“Really?” Kandy didn’t seem to buy it.

“Really,” Lee assured her and nuzzled Cam’s neck. “Honey, if we’re going to get a workout in we need to get moving.”

“What? Oh! Oh yes.”

“Nice to meet you,” Lee nodded to Kandy as he put his hands on Cam’s waist, guiding her to her feet.

Cam was mute as Lee steered her in the direction of the gym.

“You too,” Kandy called after them. “See you later!”

Cam felt Lee’s hand tighten on her waist as he steered her from the juice bar and into the gym. It was like a brand, searing her even through the layers of clothing. What had she done? And how in hell was she going to even look at him? Talk about a bad first impression!

“I’m going to assume that Kandy with a K is not one of your favorite people?”

“Not exactly.” She dared a look up at him. “Look, I owe you an apology. Kandy is… well, it’s a long story so let’s just say she’s something of a thorn in my side. Which doesn’t excuse my behavior at all and I’ll completely understand if you want to rethink being my trainer.”

“Are you kidding? And miss escorting you to the fundraiser and meeting the mysterious Danny?”

Cam grimaced. “You do not have to attend the event.”

“Oh but I do.”

“Why?”

“Let’s just say that I’m curious and leave it at that. For now.”

Cam felt a tingle of excitement. Was that look on his face what she thought it was? Was Lee Holiday attracted to her?

Suddenly the idea of attending the fundraiser had a lot more appeal.

* * * * *

Tempt the Cougar Blog

From Cam: Well, I sure can’t make fun of men anymore about thinking with their little heads. I swear all I could do was wonder if he’d be half as good in bed as I imagine. The damn man totally destroyed my concentration. All I could think about was that kiss. Oh god, what a kiss! I bet he thinks I’m the most uncoordinated, clumsy woman on the planet. I couldn’t even think about working out and made some lame excuse about having an appointment I couldn’t miss. But damn, I can’t wait for the next workout. I might not be getting any, but I sure as hell am having some good fantasies about it.

Cam leaned back and stared at the screen. Lee Holiday was, by far, the sexiest man she had seen in a long, long time. But it was more than his appearance. An aura of power and an unspoken promise of pleasure seemed to hover around him like an intoxicating cloud. She’d never felt anything like it and her first meeting with him was one of the most sexually charged events she’d experienced in a long time.

Fortunately, she’d be prepared for his charisma when it came time for the next workout and maybe she’d make it through the exercises without seeming like a clumsy oaf. At least she hoped so. Impressing Lee Holiday was now at the top of her priority list.

Let's get it on

2009-12-20T04:26:00.000-08:00

Yeah baby! I've finally found my groove, my move... my rrrrrroar!

You won't believe what happened! Lee escorted me to the fund raiser last night. Talk about feeling like the belle of the ball! It was amazing and unlike my ex, Lee's focus was all on me. I kept waiting for the clock to strike midnight and turn me into a pumpkin.

And OMG, I had sex in the powder room! Well, sort of. Oral sex and let me tell you, the top of my head nearly flew off. It was... amazing. I couldn't believe that was me. And later, when we got back to my house.... well, let's just say that I have a new theme song ... and am ready and eager to explore multiple and diverse ways of getting it on!

I think I found sexual nirvana! And now I need to sleep. Or not:) Lee just came out of the shower and from the looks of things sleep ISN'T on his mind.

Yahoo!!!!

Position of the week—Tigress

2009-12-19T13:30:00.000-08:00

The one really puts the woman in control. It involves the man lying on his back while the woman sits on top facing away from him. Sort of like riding a horse backward, but what a ride, ladies! Talk about hitting all the hot spots. I had multiple orgasms with this one.

Grwrrr! Holy crap. Ethan showed up at my work yesterday and demanded that I take the rest of the day off. Said we were going somewhere special. We went out for a super-romantic lunch then he surprised me by booking a suite in the swankiest hotel in town. There was champagne and strawberries in the room and he’d even brought some romantic music and we slow danced! I was so hot for him by the time the music ended, I accidentally tore his shirt trying to undress him. We ended up on the floor as always and that was when I pushed him down on his back and gave him my personal brand of thank you in the form of the Tigress. Oh yeah, who’s queen of the jungle now?

Hot Damn!

2009-12-18T04:10:00.000-08:00

OMG you won't believe what happened to me!!

I signed up at a new gym and went for my initial meeting with a personal trainer. So naturally like the eager beaver I am (no pun intended) I show up early. I was waiting in the juice bar (texting with Stevie and Edie) when the trainer, Lee Holiday, walked in.

I damn near swallowed my tongue (well after I rolled it back up into my mouth.) Can you say Hot - damn hot - crotch pot, pantie melting hot???

So, we're chatting and suddenly the bright moment turned to total crap because who shows up but Kandy. Yes, freaking Kandy with a 'K' - the barbie doll that my ex cheated on me with.

I don't know what possessed me. I just couldn't face another episode of her "oh Cammie, how are you, poor little lonely old thing." So I grabbed Lee and planted one on him. Yes, me. I did.

Well girls, I got quite a shock. He didn't shove me away or pull back. In fact, he pulled me right onto his lap and gave me a kiss that could've curled my hair without the permanent wave solution. It definitely curled my toes and flipped the on switch to the old libido motor.

I almost forgot Kandy with a K was standing there. Yippee, yahoo and big high five for me - I got to gloat over the total look of shock on her face. And Lee pretended that we are an item - which I'm sure frosted her wheaties.

It was a grand moment. Only when she left I felt more than a bit insecure and made an excuse to leave before the end of my session. Yeah, I know, chicken chicken. But I'm going back today.

Oh! And he told Kandy that he's going to be escorting me to the fund raiser I organized that's happening next weekend. WTF? I wonder if he was serious? Just in case I think I'll go shopping for a new dress.

And maybe a black lace thong. Hey, a girl can dream!!

Position of the week—Clasping

2009-12-12T13:27:00.000-08:00

This position is achieved when the couple lays on their sides and the man spoons the woman from behind. It certainly helps if your guy is well endowed, like mine! Clasping is great for slow, deep, sensual lovemaking and extra special for the woman, as it leaves the man’s hands free to explore other parts of her body as well.

Hey gals. Ethan and I are really putting a dent in that Kama Sutra list he made me write. Oh, did I mention that I just keep adding to it? Hee hee. I still can’t believe we’ve been going out for nearly a month! Last night, we ordered pizza in—you know how much my cooking sucks—and started watching a movie. Ethan whispered “Clasping” in my ear and before I knew it, we were naked on the living room floor, kissing and holding each other. I swear that man knows the positions better than I do. It was so incredibly romantic, simply lying in each other’s arms, so close it was as if we were one person. Of course, the fact that he has a huge cock certainly helped. LOL. He’d kill me if he knew all the things I share with you girls. Oh crap, there he is, beating on the door. Damn man never remembers his key.

Talk to you later.

Hear me ROAR!

2009-12-09T09:25:00.000-08:00

Oh. My. God.

I know I sound like a teenager saying that, but who cares? You know I was getting a tattoo the other day. Well, I did. I’ll post a picture of it, but what happened at the tattoo parlor is far more interesting than the ink.

I DID IT! The artist, Errol, was a HOT- YOUNG -STUD. Can you say muscle bound and bald? While he was putting on my tat, I looked over to the side a saw a picture of him wearing leather and holding two floggers. Uh-huh. Floggers. I got so turned on. He noticed and before you know it we were talking about sex. Ladies… he owns a private BDSM club. You know-- like in that book we were taking about at RomantiCon?

He invited me. ME! Yes, Monica, I went. And then I went back. The first night he introduced me to the furniture and the toys. I returned the next night to play with some other members of the club, a sexy dominatrix and her slave boy. Don’t every body faint. I met the Cougar Challenge. I will be seeing lots more of Errol in the future. He actually likes me. Can you believe it?

So, there you have it. I had two younger men and one younger woman…or rather, they had me. LOL

Getting Ink.

2009-12-07T09:52:00.000-08:00

Hey ladies!

I decided to get a tattoo! Cool, right? I picked the Ankh-- the sign of eternal life and the soul. Here’s a pic of one. I chose the Ankh because it was on the side of that big mobile home EC had parked outside the hotel at RomantiCon. I was looking at the picture of the group of us and that’s when it hit me—it would perfect.

I know this may sound like a cop out to some of you (Monica), but I’ve not had much luck even convincing myself to attempt to seduce a younger man. So, instead of going out and having a disaster of an embarrassing moment, which would surely put me in therapy, I’ve decided to get the tat.

I love that you all have done it. You grabbed those hot men and made it happen. I’m even happier some of you found real love. This Cougar Challenge is just not for me.
Looking at them is okay. ;) I can do that, so I’ll leave you with some pictures of tattoos-- just for inspiration.
-Stevie

Kama Sutra anyone???

2009-12-05T13:24:00.000-08:00

Thanks to Cam’s suggestion, I will now be sharing expert advice on the Tempt the Cougar blog in regards to various Kama Sutra positions—LOL. Not quite sure when I crossed the line from horny divorcee to sex expert, but believe me, I’m loving it on this side of the tracks. Check back next week for my first installment!

Dear Santa...

2009-12-03T14:40:00.000-08:00

I've been good this year - depressingly good. But I promise to be bad if you would just deliver the perfect gift to me this year.

Here's a picture so you'll know just want I'm looking for.

And hey, if you can see your way clear to fulfilling my Christmas wish, I'll slide down your chimney:)

He Can't Be Real!

2009-12-01T21:18:00.000-08:00

I see a guy like this and have to wonder how much of his appeal is due to airbrushing, digital manipulation and photoshop trickery.

Come on, ladies. How many of you have ever seen a real man--not some model in a picture--but a real man in real life who looks that good? Well, other than the gorgeous cover models at RomantiCon of course. Those guys are some of the sexiest men on the face of the earth!

But this guy, he wouldn't last 10 seconds in the real world without women trying to trip him and then fall all over him.

Sure, I've seen plenty of hot men before but...dayum! Nobody is that perfect. He's definitely wet dream fantasy material though. Oh yeah, I can see everyone racing for the fresh batteries and toys already. *BWEG*

Help me!

2009-11-27T13:14:00.000-08:00

Ethan wants to help me fulfill this damn cougar challenge—TONIGHT! He’s serious about it too. What the hell am I supposed to do? He just gave me a copy of the Kama Sutra and told me to pick out some positions to try. Then he told me to wear something sexy. What the hell is that supposed to mean? I’m as sexy as the Queen of England. Oh my God. Kill me now. How did I let you girls talk me into this?

Sigh

2009-11-26T13:04:00.000-08:00

Well, I have to admit I'm a bit depressed. When Monica issued the challenge, I had no idea you gals would take it so seriously...or get so damn lucky! Your adventures have left me breathless.

Meanwhile here I sit, working late again, looking at my so-called list of potential 'younger men', knowing full-well I'll never do this. It's just not in me.

The only bright spot in my dreary days is lusting over my PT patient, Ethan. And before you ask, yes he's younger and no, he's not on my list. I'm far too practical to even pretend he'd wanna fool around with me.

Oh well, thought I'd post this picture my girlfriend, Deb sent me. Gotta tell you though, Ethan is way hotter than this guy!

Ever So Thankful!

2009-11-25T21:52:00.001-08:00

I was having a difficult time getting into the holiday mood and then I stumbled upon something that changed my entire outlook. Gottta love a man who knows how to heat things up in the kitchen! Delicious!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Guess what I got on eBay?

2009-11-25T07:20:00.000-08:00

A broken down ranch and a hot, hot, hot cowboy. OMG, he is beyond mouthwatering. Of course, he's got to be at least ten years younger than me and when I showed up to take ownership of Sweetgrass Ranch. And no wonder. He's the only thing sweet about it. The pictures on eBay must have been taken twenty years ago, because I swear the swindler who owned didn't put a dime into it.
But Mitchell Brand makes it all worthwhile. He's over six feet, with broad shoulders and lean hips that I'd love to wrap my legs around. He was made for faded jeans, a black t-shirt and a cowboy hat. I can't wait to see him on a horse. Or me.
If only!
Every other relationship I had was such a disdaster, and I'm sure he'll thnk I'm too old for him. Besides, he's the foreman and I'm his boss. But oh, lordy! I'm going to do my best to tempt him. Even a little.
Well, gotta go for now, but I'll appreciate any advice you can give me. I just have to figure out a way to connect with this guy. I get hot just looking at him.
Help!
Love,
Autumn

We have a winner!!!

2009-11-23T13:00:00.000-08:00

The winner of the $25 in downloads from Ellora's Cave is MISTY! Woo-Hoo! Simply send your wishlist to Blackraven, any author, any ebooks on the JJ site, and we'll take care of the rest.
Thank you to all who joined in the fun. We're not done yet here at Tempt the Cougar, so stay tuned...

I'm okay...

2009-11-22T15:15:00.000-08:00

Me again. You know what? I’m good! I used one of our exercises and spoke to myself rationally in front of a full-length mirror.
I forgot to mention the reason Phil was calling. He says he can’t make his payment because his new wife sprung a leak and they want to upgrade her breasts while they’re having it fixed. The more I think about it, the sorrier I feel for her. No matter how big or what shape she makes them, it will never be quite good enough for Phil the Asshole.
I’m going for the test drive with Kevin. My body may have some wear and tear but there’s still decent mileage left. I’m signing off for now but you can bet I’ll post later.
Wish me luck!
Elizabeth

Where is everyone???

2009-11-22T14:30:00.000-08:00

Phil called and like an idiot I picked up the phone before I realized it was him. I swear he must have radar. Ding! Elizabeth is planning to have sex and as always, it’s up to me to make sure she doesn’t enjoy it. Let’s see, which cut is best for the occasion…let’s go with a mix of boobs and overall performance this time. You want to know what he said? Drumroll, please…
“Bigger tits wouldn’t hurt but they wouldn’t help you in the sex department.”
Okay, I know he’s an asshole. I know he’s just saying these things to get to me but I’ve only had sex with one other guy. It was before Phil and it wasn’t great either. It just kind of…was, like with Phil.
Shit. Kevin is due here in forty-five minutes. Do I really have what it takes to satisfy a man, let alone a hot younger man?
Forty-four minutes to detox from the ex…
Elizabeth

CONTEST!!

2009-11-17T17:48:00.000-08:00

I'm jumping in on the all of the characters to remind everyone, PLEASE DO NOT LEAVE YOUR ANSWERS TO THE QUESTIONS ON THIS BLOG!!

Sign up as a follower of this blog, then leave a comment here, or on Elizabeth's last blog, It's My Turn, saying you have done so. Then email Blackraven your answers at theblackraven36@yahoo.com The answers can be found here on Tempt the Cougar, and on her website, www.theblackraveneroticcafe.blogspot.com in my interrogation - er, interview with her and Dr. Raven.

Good luck and have fun!

I met a younger man!

2009-11-17T11:02:00.000-08:00

Hey, tonight started out pretty dismal but I ended up having a great time. Not only did I meet a perfect guy for the challenge, I discovered a coworker has serious friend potential. I’m honestly not sure which one excites me more but I do know which one you all want to hear about! His name is Kevin and he’s about six-foot-one and full of muscle. Okay, now I have that song by those guys from Australia in my head. No, he doesn’t come from the land down under but you can tell it really was 80s night at the bar! He has wavy, light brown hair that falls below his collar and the deepest, dark green eyes I’ve ever seen.
He calls me Elle. At first it made me wonder if I would be better off pretending to be someone else but it got a little weird so I came clean. He can still call me Elle though.
Oh and did I mention that he kisses like a dream? LOL! We’re supposed to go out next Friday night but I’m going to save time and make something to eat here. Better yet, we’ll do takeout.
Elizabeth

It's My Turn!

2009-11-17T10:55:00.000-08:00

Ladies, I’m going out tonight! Another nurse mentioned that her husband plays in a band at a local bar just outside of Boston and I’m going to check it out. They’re doing a Saturday night 80s theme, so at least I’ll like the music. I haven’t been to a bar in ages and never to meet men but it’s still a good place to go, right?
Elizabeth

Who knew they did these in glass?

2009-11-12T17:31:00.000-08:00

Do I get my toaster now? We did it. But I’m in deeper than I meant to be. He’s great in bed and out and his invention in bed is amazing.

Girls, the man has a collection. When he said he had toys, I thought he meant handcuffs and stuff like that, but no.
Remember the Plaster Casters? They took casts of the erect cocks of rock stars back in the day. John has a collection - done in glass! And he had one done of his own to go with the set.
Guess which one I chose?

I thought I was experienced. I am, but while I might have done the things we do before, I haven’t done them with him, felt the perfection of being with him. What is happening to me?

I did it!

2009-11-11T15:19:00.001-08:00

I met John Sung again last night and I took him home. He’s the most amazing man. Girls he’s ten years younger than me! Can you believe this is the first younger man I’ve ever dated? And by ‘dated’ I don’t mean ‘went out with’ I mean got hot and heavy with. He’s intense sexy—and he doesn’t want me to have the surgery. Says it would be like whitewashing the Mona Lisa. Nuts. I never saw what Leonardo saw in her anyway. She could have done with a bit of lip-plumping at least.

This man is seriously hot. He made me come just by touching my nipples. Can you believe that? He asked me to call him tomorrow. I don’t know. Should I? Or should I let this be just one of those ships-in-the-night things. Thing is, while I’m seeing him we’re on a bet and the prize is that I don’t have the surgery. I have a TV interview coming up and if I want surgery I need it soon so I can recover enough to appear. They can do wonderful things these days fast but not that fast. I’m running out of time.

I Love A Man In (Or Out of) Uniform

2009-11-11T13:35:00.001-08:00

I couldn't let Veterans Day pass without commenting on how much I adore a man in uniform. I think soldiers are the ultimate sex symbol. They really will kill to protect what's theirs. And, sue me, I think that is totally sexy. These young soldiers in their uniforms everywhere, I love them. I love what they do, what they're doing for me and our country, and how they look. I wonder if they'll do a writers USO tour? :-)

So, Here's What Happened...

2009-11-05T07:38:00.000-08:00

I know you all are dying to hear what happened when I went out and met the Cougar Challenge. Here's the scoop.

I went to a bar. It was a bar that my ex used to go to when he was in law school, lots of graduate students there. Prime younger man material. Right? Wrong. It turned out that a young college crowd has taken it over. Ugh. I walked into a nightmare. I shoved through the crowd to the bar and ordered a scotch, and what to my eye-popping delight appeared but an absolutely gorgeous bartender. The best part was, I didn't have to put the moves on him. He put them on me. He pretty much had me at "I'm your man."

Long story short, I went home with him. And his roommate. Uh, yeah. It was a two for one hot younger man deal. LOL The bartender's name is Sam. We hit it off right away. His roommate's name is Josh. Honest to God, ladies, I did things that I never imagined, except in my wildest fantasies, that I would do. (That is NOT Sam and Josh, but you get the mental picture.) Sam wants to see me again. He begged me to give him a chance. I admit I'm a little scared. I thought my ex had cured me of any desire to get involved with a younger man again. But Sam can be very persuasive.

He pulled out the, "Of all the gin joints in the world, she walks into mine." So then I agreed to give Sam a chance and we made love all day. By Friday I should be recuperated enough to see him again. Well, I am going to see him Friday. What I really meant was to have sex again. Because I really, really want to have sex with Sam again. And again. And then, if possible, again.

Honestly, last night was the best thing I ever did for myself. Even if Sam and I hadn't connected like we did, I still wouldn't regret it. For the first time in years I feel alive and sexy and self-confident. I could take on the world! I am cougar, hear me roar!

I think even if I'd only found Josh last night, I'd still be pretty happy about the whole thing. He was sweet and hot and sexy and helped make the night unforgettable. But he's not interested in me romantically. For Josh and for me it was a once-in-a-lifetime thing. A chance to live out our fantasies. I think a lot of younger guys out there fall into this category. And yes, a threesome is indeed as hot as the books make it sound. Even more so. Two guys completely absorbed in making you come as many times as possible? As Josh says, win-win situation.

(This is me and Sam. Not really, but it will be on Friday. For about ten seconds before I rip the jeans off of him.)

So eat your hearts out, ladies. I am now an experienced cougar! Cam, do you want a picture of me so you can put me at the top of the blog with Rico? *grin*

Edie's dilemma

2009-11-04T10:33:00.000-08:00

We’ve been talking about younger men for a while now. I’ve known a few, from male models who can’t see further than their own beautiful asses to photographers who demand favors for good pictures. But I’ve never been to bed with one. They prefer the young vulnerable wannabes, the ones who can’t fight back. I’ve always despised younger men.

But you girls have given me a new way of looking at it. I think you’re right. There are some great younger men out there. You know that a few years back my husband traded me in for a younger model. I know, I know, some of you have the same experience but this bastard keeps waving her in my face.

Time I did something about it. I’m seeing a plastic surgeon next week. It’s taken me a long time to get to this point but I’m taking the plunge. Then watch me.

New on the scene

2009-11-01T15:26:00.000-08:00

Sometimes I wonder why I ever gave up modeling. There are some new guys on the scene. I don't remember them quite this yummy! Do you think they need some help getting used to the modeling scene? I'd be only to pleased to help them!

What a girl wants...

2009-10-28T00:06:00.000-07:00

If one picture is worth a thousand words, then this has to be worth a couple of chapters. And I could seriously dream up multiple chapters of things I'd do to and with these guys.

Problem is, how the heck do you go about finding a guy that looks like this? Where the heck are the hiding, the gym? The gym!! Of course, they obviously work out. Okay, I'm outta here - gonna go Google the gyms in my area:)

I'm dreaming about cowboys

2009-10-26T14:30:00.000-07:00

Just trying to find my niche in the world, the place to take my walk on the wild side. Been browsing eBay (I, know, I know, you can't buy a man on eBay...yet!) but I saw this ranch for sale (so I'm crazy, Shoot me.) And then I came across this picture of a cowboy and I can't get him out of my mind. Talk about instant horny. I've always played it so safe, but y'all gave me the courage to push the envelope. Don't you think this guy is worth looking for?

Hugs from Autumn

Anyone for Asian men?

2009-10-25T15:29:00.000-07:00

I must be in a rut. Or something. Anyway, I thought about having a few cosmetic procedures and I went to the best doctors in L.A. Sung and Roubiere have done the best in the business.
So should I have it done?
And even more - Dr. John Sung! I've never met him but I've had a thing about Asian men forever, and if he becomes my doctor, he's forever out of reach.
There are more men in the sea, I suppose, but this one - oh baby! Not that I'd have a chance, he's ten years younger than me and I'm not what I used to be.
Time was I was really confident about my looks, despite being surrounded by some of the most beautiful women in the world. Now, I dunno, I've lived quietly for the last five years, and opening that door again scares me.
But having somewhere to confess it is sooo good!

Edie.

2009-10-25T07:04:00.000-07:00

I'm so inspired by the pictures you guys are posting, that I've decided to find my "dream man" pic, too. I appear to be a bit more sedate in my tastes, but I'm sure you all will change that over time. In fact, I'm counting on it!

The List

2009-10-24T10:27:00.000-07:00

I know Monica challenged us all to try to find a younger man to play with, but I have to tell you girls, the list I've compiled of 'possibles' is pathetic. You know me--I'm overthinking this. I'm only writing down the names of guys I think I actually have a shot at attracting and it's become apparent my self-esteem took a harder hit in the divorce from the asshole than I realized. This list is depressing. Why can't I ever find and seduce a guy who looks like this one?

Rachel

Another Friday Night and I Ain't Got Nobody

2009-10-16T12:41:00.000-07:00

This is it. Another Friday night in front of the computer staring at younger men has convinced me it's time. No more fantasies. I want the real deal. So, put your money where your mouth is, ladies. Or where your blog is. ;-) Let's do this! I challenge each of you, and me, too, to go out there and find a younger man to make our fantasies come true. No more dreaming. Let's live, live, live!

RomantiCon Rocked!!

2009-10-14T08:23:00.000-07:00

Hi ladies! I miss you guys already. :-(

I had so much fun with you last weekend at RomantiCon. Weren't those cover models gorgeous? I'm still mad that I didn't win the dance contest, but the truth is Holly was the best dancer there! How could she go wrong dancing with that hottie Taylor? lol

Stevie and I drove home to North Carolina and the drive through the mountains was beautiful. We laughed the whole way about how we met the first night. Cam, your psychedelic sixties costume was HOT! I'm sorry I spilled a glass of wine all over myself and Rachel, but at least it wasn't all over your sexy outfit. And thank you again, Autumn, for the napkins, and Cam for the replacement wine. Oh, and Elizabeth thank you for making sure Stevie didn't choke she was laughing so hard at me. That'll teach me to ogle young, sexy cover models instead of watching where I'm going. Wait a minute. No it won't! Isn't that what this blog is all about?

One of these days I'm going to have to go out and make my younger man fantasies a reality, but for now I thought I'd post some pictures. I'm going through cover model withdrawal.

Play It Again, Sam Coming Oct. 16th from Ellora's Cave

2009-10-01T08:38:00.000-07:00

Let the Cougar Challenge begin!

Monica Allen has always been attracted to younger men. She even married one. But after the divorce she thought she was through with them for good. Then she met a group of ladies at RomantiCon and they formed a blog celebrating younger men, Tempt the Cougar.

After another lonely Friday night, Monica challenges her friends to each find a younger man to make their fantasies come true. She doesn’t have to marry him—been there, done that, threw away the t-shirt. But for a night of hot sex? Hell yes.

But Sam Lincoln refuses to be just a fantasy. He’s a graduate student with a yen for older women and he may have just found the one to make his own fantasies come true. With a little help from his roommate Josh, Sam fulfills Monica’s deepest desires. Can he convince this sexy cougar to give him a chance at happily ever after?

*Check back next week for Monica's first blog post. And some man-candy, of course!

Toss your inhibitions and release your inner wild woman

2009-08-29T05:00:00.000-07:00

Coming Soon from Ellora's Cave!!

Seven of the wildest women of erotic romance pull out all the stops in a series about women who dare to take the challenge and experience the delights of sex with a younger man. Women who cast off their cloaks of conventionality and indulge their inner wild woman.

Stay tuned for updates!